degradedsissy1:This sissy does not actually need to be kept in chains, but it helps reinforce its
degradedsissy1: This sissy does not actually need to be kept in chains, but it helps reinforce its sense of being overwhelmed; its sense of being too weak and impotent to do anything other than what others determine it should do. The most salient characteristic that distinguishes a sissy is not its effeminacy, its impotence or its crossdressing. It is that it is weak. Incredibly weak! A sissy possesses almost no strength of character or personality whatsoever. It may succeed, sometimes for many years, in deceiving itself and others, that it actually has a sense of purpose; a strength of character. This is necessary for the sissy to survive at its job and at its family and social interactions, whilst it writhes through pitiful motions of denying what a pathetic, emasculated creature it is. Yet, in reality, deep down, its basic impulse is one of abject surrender in every circumstance. It wants to be defeated. It wants to surrender. It wants to be exposed for the mincing, limp-wristed, effeminate failure that it is. It wants the whole world see it in its stockings, high heels, ultra feminine and ultra frill sissy dresses. It wants the world to bear witness as it abjectly caves in to others and submits itself to the most humiliating abuse and degradation. This is not because it lacks intellect or capability. Many sissies actually succeed for years at jobs demanding high levels of intellect, knowledge, training, skill, or physical strength. It is not that they can’t do these jobs or manage normal social relationships It is that their fear of failure is so powerful, that their impulse us to surrender; to give up; to just accept failure and defeat and be done with it. Even when they have succeeded beyond any expectations they are already dreading the fear of failure at the next challenge. For the sissy, to live life like this is to live way outside its comfort zone. The sissy’s immediate impulse is to collapse pathetically in defeat before they have even started. There are external pressures that keep pushing it along, but deep down it just wants to drop to its knees before its conqueror. There is a certain comfort in defeat; in surrender. You no longer need to agonise over fear of failure. It just brings on the expected more quickly and allows the sissy to exist within its comfort zone. One characteristic, common to many sissies, is that they tend to have grown up in a culture where girls got to stay home with mum, helping with domestic chores, and existing in a less competitive culture talking about fashion and lifestyles, where boys were expected to participate in a much rougher, highly competitive environment. Whilst, often the sissy learns how to hold its own in such an environment, and savour a the occasional ‘victory’, it secretly loathes the constant one-upmanship; the constant pressure to compete; the constant need to be better than toes around it. Deep down it yearns for the more, in its eyes, tranquil, and less competitive life that many of the girls around it are immersed it. I recall, in my own early years, I tried to avoid fights and conflict with other boys at all costs, but sometimes they were unavoidable. In such circumstances, my impulses were not to win or to fight back, but to accept defeat surrender at a very early stage. Despite the fact that others looking on, saw me as weak and pathetic ( yes, the term ‘sissy’ was frequently aimed at me), there was always a soothing sense of relief that overcame me as soon as I had surrendered. Sometimes some of the girls would nurse and comfort me. As much as this magnified my humiliation, it was something in which I also, found soothing comfort. So a sissy does not need a great deal of coercion, if any. Resistance and defiance are not in its nature. It’s most basic instinct is to submit; to comply; to do as its superiors tell it. When it has reached the nadir that the sissy in the above photo has, of being permanently attired in stockings, heels and sissy dresses, locked in permanent chastity, and performing menial household chores, at direction, chains are actually not required to make it do what is required and keep it malleable. However, the chains do represent an overkill that actually serves the productive purpose of so completely overwhelming the sissy, that it gives up any notion that it has a life, the course of which it is even in some small way able to influence, but rather an existence that is totally directed an determined by others. It is nothing but a twig being helpless car tied away by rampant floodwaters. -- source link