the-awkward-turt:boyforbodilyautonomy:shit-boys-say:rosesinparis27:shit-boys-say:I’ve seen this a co

the-awkward-turt:boyforbodilyautonomy:shit-boys-say:rosesinparis27:shit-boys-say:I’ve seen this a couple times on Facebook and no no no no. This is borderline abusive. Maybe a father would send this, but a boyfriend???“It’s hard because I’ve always been a tremendously good person”What are you implying about your girlfriend there, pal?“When I text you, you are to answer”Okay mom. Seriously. She’s your girlfriend, let her have fun instead of having to check her phone constantly. Don’t patronize your partner and act like they’re your child. Going to a party doesn’t mean they value parties over you. And if you have to remind your girlfriend not to cheat multiple times maybe you should reevaluate your trust issues. Don’t give your girlfriend a fucking curfew. If you can’t trust her to be reasonable at a party to the point that you send her a fucking book of rules, then maybe you shouldn’t be together. Seriously. Significant others aren’t your possessions/children.The sad part is that shit like this really happens there are men out there that think this is normal. And if you don’t stop it early on it just gets worse, talking from experience..really messes you up when you still get haunted by this behavior years later^^Possessiveness =\= cute and usually doesn’t end innocentlythis is so grossbe careful, stay safe, don’t drink too much, text me when you get home etc is one thing but this… this is just fucked up^If you see behavior like this in a boy run away as fast as you can Implying moral superiority, using how much he supposedly cares about the girl to justify being controlling, checking in on her and bossing her around, and making her feel bad for going to a party with other people which can be the first step in isolating someone from their friends and family.These are all huge red flags. Do not ignore them. Do not justify them. Leave him. -- source link

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