brainy-bimbo:dumbgirlsrule:If at first you don’t succeed, give up. One of the biggest mistakes I
brainy-bimbo: dumbgirlsrule: If at first you don’t succeed, give up. One of the biggest mistakes I see girls making is that they struggle and force themselves to do things that are beyond their limits. Everyone has limitations on their intelligence, talent, and ability - there’s nothing wrong with that. Unfortunately, far too many girls push themselves to try and do things that are beyond their limits, and this always ends up with them doing things badly, causing problems for others, and making other people work to correct her mistakes. Girls that challenge themselves aren’t inspiring or sexy, they’re an annoyance. The kind of girl that men want to be with is one that knows her limits and doesn’t push herself outside them. She does what she’s good at and lets other people take care of what’s hard for her, because that’s what works best for everyone. If you want to be easy to love, when you encounter something hard - quit. It’s not something that’s meant for you and you’re better off not doing it. Focus on what you’re good at - looking good and being fun. That’s what men want anyway. I find this kind of thing extremely sexy - this sort of patronizing, condescending attitude that girls in general are somehow inferior or lesser-than. It bothers me how much I like it, actually. I know I’ve posted about it before, but it’s one of the big things I feel conflicted about in this kink. I’m a feminist. I think you’re crazy if you don’t believe in a woman’s right to do just about any damn thing she wants. I think there’s a misogynistic undercurrent to a lot of our society and it’s actively dangerous and problematic. And despite all that, I imagine saying this to a man, and having him pat me on the head and call me cutie. And that thrills me in a way I don’t know what to do with. I don’t even really want to post this, because I know I’ll get messages from people now trying to do exactly this - condescend to me and get me hot. And they won’t work, because the tone for it is extremely delicate and 95% of the people I’ve met who’ve tried can’t do it. It’s a fickle, confusing, tricky thing. But that 5% make me absolutely melt. So yeah… @dumbgirlsrule, I’m sorry for hijacking your post like this! I read it a dozen or so times, loved it, and got sort of irritated with myself for loving it. Seemed like a good jumping-off point for a confused ramble. :) I’m also going to hijack this post, in two parts.First, I really want to applaud @dumbgirlsrule for his captions. i come across a lot of “girls are dumber than men yadda yadda yadda” posts and some of of them are fine, a lot suck, but ones like these are masterful. I remember thinking as I read it “wow, I thought this was going to suck but it’s like he’s jedi mind tricking me into believing this!” So, kudos to you!Secondly, I want to pile onto what brainy-bimbo said. There is something so thrillingly hot and sexy about scenarios like this, but she is right, getting the tone right is extremely delicate. That means when you barge into our messages with something blunt like “hey you’re a stupid bitch suck my dick,” it comes off as really REALLY stupid and you look like an asshole. It’s a VERY clear sign that you’re not putting any effort into it. Taking the time to craft your words and approaches in a hot way pays off, and opens the door to some crazy stuff. I’ve done some ridiculously depraved stuff in online RP, but I would never have gotten to those points had the guy not laid the groundwork first. So, I’ll just leave that for you to think about, guys. Barging in with a “You’re a dumb whore do slutty things for me,” is going to turn me off faster than a dead baby. Be better. -- source link
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