kinasty:prolifeproliberty:nevertrustamanwho:hansbekhart:xsourpussx:egodram:fuckyeahsexpositivity:bla
kinasty:prolifeproliberty:nevertrustamanwho:hansbekhart:xsourpussx:egodram:fuckyeahsexpositivity:blackwaifu:goldstarprivilege:appropriately-inappropriate:hellomissmayhem:gaywitchesforabortions:tehbewilderness:the-fly-agaric:bajo-el-mar:Reading about abusive men and the way they think. Very unsettling and an incredible book so far. Here are my very professional notes.what book is this?This is from “Why Does He DO That” by Lundy Bancroft.I’m so glad I’m seeing more and more Lundy Bancroft quotes on my dash because this book CHANGES THE LIVES OF ABUSE VICTIMS.The programs run for rehabilitating abusive men through the courts? Bancroft DESIGNED THEM. His programs are replicated ALL OVER THE WORLD.He literally wrote THE book on abuser rehabilitation.Here’s a link to a pdf copy. If you haven’t read this book yet, read this book.Can we talk about how it seems like the entirety of the book is online on PDF, this making it accessible to anyone with an internet connection?That is how we stop abuse.We enable everyone to know what it looks like, so that when it happens, they can shut it down.Arm yrself with knowledge!Changed my life, would reccomend.Reblogging for the PDF link.—BBAlways reblogging because this isn’t just a partner abuse thing, this is a common abuse tactic PERIOD: Parents, siblings, bosses, general assholes, etc…http://www.pdf-archive.com/2014/07/20/why-does-he-do-that/why-does-he-do-that.pdfnew link (the old one is broken)Pretty sure I’ve reblogged this like eight times, don’t care.Link to pdfI started reading this book and it’s incredible. The author describes in detail how abusers can change and what has to happen before they are willing to do so. This gets rid of the idea of abusers as just inhuman monsters who can’t help themselves, and replaces it with understanding of how abusers are made and how they can change. HOWEVER, the author points out that not all abusive men do change, and they never change because their partner begged them to. In fact, it sounds like the best way to get an abusive man to change is to leave him.This is the book that made my husband want a divorce after I introduced it to him and I have never been more thankful in my life lol -- source link