girlcrushtoday: When that last pic up there appeared on my dash I was really pretty spellbound tbh.
girlcrushtoday: When that last pic up there appeared on my dash I was really pretty spellbound tbh. Who is that stunning woman?! I said to myself, and set out to find out. Turns out that stunning woman is Daisy Taylor, who is a trans model and porn star. And that led to some confusion for me tbh. I *think* I can do this without saying anything offensive. I hope so, anyways. However, if I have any trans followers who read this and think, “oh, why would you say that?!” PLEASE educate me. I’m just expressing how I feel, and honestly, seeing Daisy and feeling extremely attracted to her and then finding out she was trans was kinda a new experience for me. And, it did make me question some things for a moment. I wasn’t sure what it meant. Ultimately, you could say it doesn’t really matter one way or another and labels are dumb and all that, but still, I had a moment. And I talked to my bi girlfriend about it and asked her if she thought it meant I was bi, and she said it didn’t. We had a good talk and everything Alice said made sense, but I was still kinda confused. And then I stumbled on this little rant by Daisy and wow is it ever awesome! Watch it! She really cleared everything up for me right there. Turns out that mentally I’m not that different than a straight dude? Similar concerns in this particular scenario, anyways. But Daisy really cleared it all up for me. I’m still hella gay. I’m into girls. And that includes Daisy and other trans girls too. I’ve always wondered what would happen if I hooked up with a trans girl not knowing she was trans and then discovered a penis where I wasn’t expecting one. It’s not something I’ve ever really talked about bc in my mind it honestly felt like a dealbreaker to me. But I didn’t want to really admit that, like, out loud. Because, well, I really like pussy a lot. So that would be a pretty disappointing moment, I think. But also: I’m not shallow! And, sure as much as I like pussy, it goes way beyond that for me! I like WOMEN. And I’ve never defined being a woman as having a pussy. I mean, that’s a pretty offensive limited definition of femininity isn’t it? So, why would I apply that to a trans woman? Ugh. I wish this was coming out as clear as it is in my head. Or as clearly as Daisy made it in her kinda angry, annoyed, but brilliant rant. Just watch that clip of her, ok? She’s a lot more eloquent about it than I’m being. But know that she made me understand something I hadn’t before, and changed the way I see something pretty fundamentally, and I’m very grateful to her for that which is the main reason (the other being her serious gorgeousness) that my girl crush today is Daisy Taylor. goddesses -- source link