lickmywaffle: roslinatreidesdance: pixienightmaregoddess:Look, I fixed it.See THIS bullshit is w
lickmywaffle: roslinatreidesdance: pixienightmaregoddess: Look, I fixed it. See THIS bullshit is why we kinky people can’t have nice things. There are two articles, one written by aletheanoir HERE… and oh hey LOOK… an article written by another FEMINIST HERE (le gasp!!) that give some pretty neat insight on what BDSM/kink is about. So here’s a graphic that compares what BDSM is vs what Abuse is for those too lazy to read: Ever gotten your ass spanked while getting screwed from behind? Like getting your hair pulled? News flash sweet cheeks, that’s kink, very SLIGHT kink compared to most of my friends, but still falls in the kinky spectrum. Nothing is EVER fully vanilla sex anymore, unless you do it missionary, in the dark, floor length nightgown pulled up past your hips and laying there like a dead fish while your partner pumps away; with your eyes closed the whole time praying that he’d stop soon so you could go to sleep. I am no less of a Feminist when I kneel at my chosen Dominant’s feet, nor am I less of a Feminist when I allow the kiss of a leather flogger or a single tailed whip to trail along my back and buttocks. I am still a Feminist if I have a Dominant’s collar around my neck (even if it’s just for playtime) and am lead through an area of a club on a leash. But of course, OP can’t do their own research or ask questions because “RAH ALL BDSM IS ABUSE, THERE IS NO DIFFERENCE”… The difference dear girl, is that while there ARE those pieces of scum that hide their abuse under the PRETENSE… i’ll say it again PREEEEEEEE-TENSE of BDSM… it is NOT actual BDSM/Kink. Now if anyone wants to have a CIVIL Q&A, my askbox is always open and I am more than happy to keep asks private. Disclaimer: I may ask to post the question and my reply in a new text post, but i will NOT include the name of the person who sent in the ask, because it’s the right thing to do. I LOVE YOU SO FUCKING MUCH You are my hero. -- source link
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