babycharmander:netbug009:dankou:I’d rather you just tell me instead of you going around telling peop
babycharmander:netbug009:dankou:I’d rather you just tell me instead of you going around telling people how miserable you are or being subtle because that just makes it a lot worse for both of us. Even if you can’t bring yourself to tell me directly just ask a friend or something to pass on the message because, funny as it may be, I can’t read minds or always notice when I’ve done something wrong. Don’t worry about offending me - I feel more offended that you’d rather tell a bunch of strangers what you feel about me instead of talking to me about it. Also, don’t wait to tell me until you have this long list of reasons to be pissed off and are already planning to not be friends anymore when you’re done spewing your rant.I’ve had “friends” do both. True friends try to work out problems.Ack, this. I’ve had room-mates that would get infuriated with me for reasons I did not understand, and when I asked, they refused to tell me. I can’t read minds so if you’re mad at me, you need to tell me why or I can’t fix anything! @____@;; -- source link