misskinkykat: thespringball: These women have the right idea. Combined with a chastity device, a str
misskinkykat: thespringball: These women have the right idea. Combined with a chastity device, a strap on is the perfect tool to make a man become submissive. It’s better than whips, rider’s crops, handcuffs, and ball crushers combined. All you need is consistency and persistence. This is what I mean; If he knows you’ll unlock the device and have sex with him in two weeks, guaranteed then he will NOT moderate his behavior. He doesn’t have to in order to get what he wants, so why should he? His release should be dependent entirely upon your WHIM, which he must understand that you can change at will, whenever you like. That is persistence. The Strap on has to be a regular thing. It isn’t even being used as a punishment; that is just part of sexual routine, which he undergoes at least once every two weeks, if not more often. This will eventually break down his sexual identity, and make him more submissive to your sexual needs. Some women can’t stand the idea of going a long time without sex. That’s fair. Why should they? Without going down the cuckolding path, there IS a solution. HE can wear the strap on. That’s right! Locked in chastity, with a strap on substituting for his sex organ. It’s probably bigger than his ever was anyway, and it’ll definitely last longer in bed! There is also his hands and his mouth, which I recommend that you make very liberal use of (my wife certainly does) so there is a multitude of options. The lesson he is learning is that your sexual gratification does not depend upon him, but HIS does depend upon your mood. But to make that lesson stick, you have to keep on top of it. CONSTANTLY tease and deny him. Wear the keys on your earrings, or a necklace… IN PUBLIC! Threaten to expose his new status to your friends. Take a picture. Take a selfie next to his locked cock. Threaten to post them on the internet. Play with his lock, and grope his caged cock. If you just lock it and forget it, then you aren’t really playing the game. There is no denial without (a lot of ) teasing. If you do this, you will notice significant changes to his behavior over time. I know for a FACT that within two weeks I was kissing my wife the way I used to before we were married with children, so don’t underestimate the effect that this regimen (and it IS a regimen) can have. There are so few things that can compare with making a “man” locked in chastity fuck with a fake cock strapped to him. No pleasure for you. Just for me! -- source link