whatthefuuuuuuccckkkk:jaded-not-tragic-mulatta:apokylpczar:stuck-in-a-well:gluten-free-pussy:superin
whatthefuuuuuuccckkkk:jaded-not-tragic-mulatta:apokylpczar:stuck-in-a-well:gluten-free-pussy:superindianslug:gahdamnpunk:Someone call the managerThat 53% that voted for Trump? This is them.What is it with white women and “drunk mommy” culture? They are fed the lie that finding a husband and having children will bring them happiness. When inspected from the outside they LOOK like the paradigm of a fully realized woman, yet they don’t actually feel fully realized, so they cope with alcoholWhich of course no one takes seriously, including them, so alcoholism among mothers became a meme that keeps getting worse and worse and now they even made it racist. Those are just my thoughtsTradwives. Drinking to dull the pain. Traditional-stylee. Going back to what stuck-in-a-well said, these women are looking for an outlet. They’re unfilled but society and their own family repeatedly tell them *not* aspire to be anything more than Mrs. Her Husband’s Lastname and Somebody’s Mother, and then preoccupy yourself with domestic life, frivolous neighborhood gossip, the PTA, play dates, that vapid, brain cell-killing book club and doing all the emotional labor of their marriage and having unsatisfactory, over-before-it-even-started sex. And these are the same women who scold me for being thirty-five, single and childfree? Pfft! So these women have to find *something* to distract themselves from the monotony and drudgery of their lives. This is result of when you raise girls and young women to forego whatever academic and professional ambitions they might have, and browbeat them into wifedom, motherhood and domesticity…alcohol- and Xanax-addicted suburban moms who screech “I want to speak to your manager!” because that’s the only “acceptable” situation that they can assert any kind of authority outside of their role as mothers and “the lady of the household”. Neither defending nor excusing racist Karens calling the cops of Black people for merely existing, or MAGAt Karens refusing to wear a mask, brandishing a firearm with her husband at BLM activists, or telling Latina/os to “speak English” or “go back to Mexico!” No, fuck those KKKarens. This is just my amateur, layperson assessment of the white “wino mom” phenomenon.they have no personalities outside of “wife” and “mom” -- source link