“Allowing” bodily autonomy to loved ones. TikvaWolf.comtext reads:Framing it as being &l
“Allowing” bodily autonomy to loved ones. TikvaWolf.comtext reads:Framing it as being “allowed” to be romantic with multiple people weirds me out. (image of person handing Kim a ticket that says “POLYAMORY PASS: expires when I stop having fun”).Because if anyone feels the degree of entitlement over MY mind, body, and heart to think it’s their business what I’m doing apart from them… that is absolutely not someone I want to be romantic with in the first place.(image of angry dude shouting: “You did WHAT without me??”).So for me, it’s not so much that I even care about having multiple relationships at once. I just want to feel safe and respected in whichever ones I’m in. I’m only into 24/7 Dom situations when there’s a safety word. And when there’s NOT, I use one anyway and GTFO.(Aspiring Dom): “First you need my PERMISSION”(Kim): “Shpadoinkel” -- source link
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