blacklustsugar: TerminologyWe all know the meaning and connotations of the Queen of Spades symbol an
blacklustsugar: TerminologyWe all know the meaning and connotations of the Queen of Spades symbol and I’ve used it from time to time on my blog. I remember having a conversation via messenger with someone who thought that T-girls, trannys etc shouldn’t use it but instead should talk about being Jack of Spades. I agree to a certain extent in as much as we are essentially men with a paticular fascination for Black masculinity, but we try and present as female when entering this wonderfully gender blurring world of fetish and fantasy. So Queen of Spades in my mind is more suitable and I’ll continue to use these symbols despite the obvious vagaries of gender and sexuality. -- source link