bdsmafterthoughts:And if you don’t want to do something, negotiate with your partner, Dominant or
bdsmafterthoughts: And if you don’t want to do something, negotiate with your partner, Dominant or submissive, so you both know that it’s a limit. A hard limit if it’s never to happen, and a soft limit if there MIGHT be some wriggle room. But be ready to use your safe word. Consent applies, not just to submitting to your partner, but to EVERYTHING that you do together. Consent to being tied up is NOT consent to being spanked. Go for what you like. Overdose on what you like. But never ever think that you have to do anything you don’t want to. Consent matters guys. All of the time. Mike, England, January 2015 Nobody likes everything - even -- source link