feminismohoy:its-okay-to-not-agree:smalldarlinglesbian:This is the single greatest twitter thread I
feminismohoy:its-okay-to-not-agree:smalldarlinglesbian:This is the single greatest twitter thread I have ever seen.Men are 100 responsible for unwanted pregnancies.All unwanted pregnancies are caused by the irresponsible ejaculations of men.Best thing I have ever had the pleasure to read about the abortion debateThat as a society,we really don’t mind if women suffer, physically or mentally, aslong as it makes things easier for men.I have a few quibbles, chief among them is this: pregnancy does not require ejaculation. Pre-ejaculate does contain a small amount of sperm. And the pull-out method is … really really really terrible. Even in my Catholic high school, they said “There’s a word for people who use the rhythm method and the pull-out method, and that word is ‘parents’.”But overall, yeah, this. With only one exception, the men I’ve been with (all cis, I do feel this matters here) have been ferociously centered on their own orgasm, to the point that I honestly often felt like they only tried to make me feel good so they could feel good about their own prowess and tell themselves that they were good lovers. Then I take one (1) woman to bed, and suddenly everything changes and sex is absolutely incredible. I feel like that’s a pretty huge fucking coincidence.And yeah, about half of the men I’ve been with have been cool about condoms, but the others have been absolutely insufferable. All because, as this woman points out, their orgasm is maybe slightly less intense. I’ve had a partner refuse to wear a condom and fuck me anyway, and I am still pissed off about it. Yeah, I wanted to get dicked down, but I didn’t want the two weeks of nauseating anxiety about maybe being pregnant, which would have been dangerous for me given how messed up my uterus was. It wasn’t worth it to me. But it was worth it to him, so, you know, that’s fine, I guess.OP is a gross transphobe, so if anyone has a better source for this, I’m all ears. -- source link