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azzandra:basedmarina:itstimeforfeminism:calendar—girl:girlsgetbusyzine:writeswrongs:cumaeansibyl:coffeeandconlangs:Unnecessary “fillers” in our speech. I’d rather have “like” than up-talking, though (if we had to choose one, that is). Ewwww, up-talking. Then again, a combination of the two would render me homicidal maniac.Like, did you ever notice? That, like, the speech patterns people, like, think are stupid? Are, like, commonly associated with, like, women?And, like, there’s this thing? Where, like, women aren’t supposed to be, like, assertive? So they, like, qualify their speech? Because, like, we’re not supposed to, like, stand by our opinions?1) humiliate women so they don’t feel qualified to speak authoritatively about anything2) humiliate women for speaking in such a way that reflects how you treat her3) laugh, you are superior because you don’t use words like “like.” It isn’t as if being a huge stupid asshole has ever made you worse than a woman who speaks with verbal tics. The nail. It is hit on the head.THEY DIDN’T EVEN FUCKING SPELL ACADEMY RIGHTI was on this forum once. On a thread about pet peeves, someone once said their pet peeve was when people used the word “like” in this way because it made them sound “like a ditzy Valley Girl”.And that’s why I, like, use “like” all the time. Like, it’s a conscious choice, y’know? -- source link
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