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juicyjacqulyn:givemebackmyhohohomo:red3blog:juicyjacqulyn:iidropkickbabies:nowhere-kid:juicyjacqulyn:Whenever people deny thin privilege, I just drop by my OkC account for proof that they are wrong.His account btwhttp://www.okcupid.com/profile/Lemondudey?cf=messagesAre you fucking kidding me right now.As a fat person, the guy is actually being really nice. I mean, he called me beautiful and then offered to work out with me and help me lose weight. Like honestly that sounds like my fucking dream guy. Meanwhile, your reaction makes him not want to be nice in the future. Your reaction makes people like him think that all people will react that way. He called you beautiful and THATs how you react? He probably thought “wow I tried to be nice and she was a bitch” Why would you react like that when so few people are nice. Like I get why “why would you love being fat” is a little offensive but he was genuinely curious. You can call me a fat-shamer and block me, even though everyone knows that I am the farthest thing from a fat shamer. But it pisses me off that you took this guy who could’ve been a sweet friend and maybe boyfriend and acted like a total bitch, making him not want to be nice to others in the future, even though they might not be so fucking mean. God and I thought I was over sensitive^ this.Bitching someone out for being genuinely curious isn’t cool; especially when they’re just trying to understand and BEING AS RESPECTFUL AS POSSIBLE. Curiosity should be encouraged, because it’s far better to learn than be close-minded and ignorant.oh good lord shut the fuck upso bloody ignorantFat shamers generally don’t just feel entitled to tell someone that their existance is wrong and ought to be corrected. They feel entitled to think they are being nice when doing so. They feel entitled to bully and abuse and to be greated with grateful apologies from their targets. They feel entitled for their abuse to never be called abuse. They feel entitled to their own sense of respectfulness and to reflect their abuse back on their targets who are too “close-minded” to understand how polite they were being when they told you that you don’t deserve to be.ARE. YOU. FUCKING. KIDDING. ME. No no no.He was asking a genuine fucking question. Yeah, I understand that it’s none of his business, and offensive, but how about educating him instead of calling him a waste of space? That’s making you worse than him. This is exactly why people stay uneducated on these issues, because some fat people are assholes about it and then they just stay uneducated. How fucking hard would it be to tell him that being fat isn’t always unhealthy, and that what he said was actually offensive, and then take the fucking compliment that he gave you? God fucking damn. I honestly think this is one of the reason fat shaming still exists. If you can’t take the fucking time to educate someone and prove your case, prove that thin privilege exists, etc, than how the fuck are things ever going to change? Get your head out of your fucking ass, start being nicer to people, and never call someone a waste of space. Ever. Just sayin’.Love, a fellow fat person.Dear fellow fat person, you have internalized misogyny and internalized fat hateplease figure your life out, because you’re a fucking problematic, patriarchy upholding, sexist, fatphobic piece of shit.I owe NO ONE an education. I owe NO ONE thanks for a compliment that is literally WRAPPED IN INSULTING AND INVASIVE QUESTIONS.If YOU feel ~*~totes in love~*~ with his OH so charming “compliment”, please, by all means, take this piece of scum and be merry. But NEVER fucking tell me that I need to accept ANY compliment from a man or anyone for that matter. I DON’T NEED TO ACCEPT THINGS!You’re a victim blaming, self hating fat person, who is willing to throw women under the bus in order to please and educate sexist and fat phobic men. FUCK YOUEmphasis mine.“ Yeah, I understand that it’s none of his business, and offensive, but”STOP. Stop RIGHT there. Do not pass go. Do not collect $200. Re-evaluate your argument and motives. -- source link

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