meanexwife:happy chanukah! we’re getting kicked out.i’m will & that is my cat wesley. i’m a jewi
meanexwife:happy chanukah! we’re getting kicked out.i’m will & that is my cat wesley. i’m a jewish lesbian residing in texas. this last year my fiancée and i have lived with her mother while her father had terminal pancreatic cancer. he passed only several months ago, leaving money for alex when he did. (enough for a down payment on an apartment and then some.) her mother has stolen all of this and refuses alex access to it.recently we were given five months to leave— mind you, this is less than five months after alex’s father has died. in these months she has begun wildly and impulsively spending our collective income on frivolous things. she refuses to get a job. last minute trips to las vegas and new orleans, four tattoos, the same pair of $33 leggings three times. she hides her purchases from us, and i’m only aware she spends money when i manage to get the mail before she does.she swings with no warning from cheerful to cruel, and insults both of us without a thought. simultaneously she’s started devoting all her time to several boyfriends, who she’s let be rude to us and has started giving money to. her boyfriends are allowed an uncomfortable amount of access to us and we are under all circumstances expected to be polite to them. i have been insulted to my face more than once. not only is she verbally abusive, she is physically abusive to our animals (her dog and our cat).she has started neglecting her aging dog, who we have become the caretakers of and now has separation anxiety being apart from us. she refused to take her to the vet for months, leaving us to do it. she’s threatened to poison my cat, or leave him outside. (he has chronic health issues & would almost certainly die.)in the past, she has attacked alex while she was having panic attack and i fully believe she could have seriously injured her were her grandmother not present. her grandmother blocked her from entering the living room while she continued berating us from the kitchen. i’ve been paying for groceries & amenities solely on my own and out of my savings.when she bought groceries three days ago, she had a hysterical fit. both of us are physically disabled. i use a cane as my mobility decreases, and have had joint issues my entire life. before we were in this position, i was actively seeking a psychiatric service dog for my treatment resistant PTSD.alex currently works a minimum wage job and is taking a second, while i look for a first. in the mean time, i’ve been doing odd jobs for neighbours. yesterday, while working a job for alex’s aunt she confided in me that the handyman she’d hired for the job previously assaulted her.he berated her, threw sharp objects at her and when she got him out of her house, began beating his own truck. she told alex’s mom this.when we got home, i walked in to see him casually laying on our couch smoking with her. (our lease is STRICTLY nonsmoking as well.) he was clearly on coke. we are both stressed and not making enough money with current work to leave as quickly as we need to. i worry for our safety, and the safety of our animals. we need help. i know this has been a long and heavy post, so thank you for sticking with me. if you could reblog, we would appreciate it. if you’re able to donate:DONATE: https://www.paypal.me/warene my fiancée has made her own adjacent post, which you can read here -- source link
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