tryitandlikeit:Since we’re going to talk about BDSM a lot on this blog, safety is important.
tryitandlikeit: Since we’re going to talk about BDSM a lot on this blog, safety is important. This is REALLY wordy because I’m passionate about this subject. I’m the daughter of a wood & metal shop teacher so it’s in my blood. Safety comes first, always! Always always always, even if it’s just you going “let’s get stupid and wrestle until one of us gets a bloody nose but cry out if you get a cracked rib!!” (But seriously kids, safety first.) There are all kinds of wonderful safety tips out there depending on what kind of kink or sex activity you participate in, and I fully encourage (coerce? Force?) you to seek out the opinions of those more qualified than I. That said, these are our personal golden three rules. Even if the second one isn’t relevant every time (bondage isn’t always involved, I think) it’s good to always know: how will I communicate if something goes wrong? What if it’s big, or just trivial? Does this person *actually* know what they’re doing — where’s the references from other play partners? Do I feel okay about this? You gotta take care of yourself! Click on the above comic for a bigger version. We still don’t have any questions in our ask box! Until we get any, we’ll just keep chugging along with BDSM-related stuff. However, the point of this blog is to get us to experiment in order to answer your questions — so go go go, ask ask ask! -- source link
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