wolfandfoxbdsm:Aftercare, it means a lot of different things to a lot of people… ice-cream,
wolfandfoxbdsm: Aftercare, it means a lot of different things to a lot of people… ice-cream, cookies, massages, cuddles, movies, shows, showers, baths, dinners, the list goes on and on. The thing is, aftercare, means little if it’s not surrounded by care all around. One can’t just care after a session, one has to care before and after. I’ve know many a Dom to do a fantastic job of aftercare, I mean pulling out all of the stops, but when the sub really needs it at different times…eh, not so much. In those cases, aftercare, just becomes a temporary fix, to something that needs a permanent solution. Try not to forget…aftercare is not just in the moment, it’s an always thing. -- source link