wholockiandalek: knittingandfandoms: my-mental-pile: itsme98z: YES. Make things clearer and more spe
wholockiandalek: knittingandfandoms: my-mental-pile: itsme98z: YES. Make things clearer and more specific Especially the first one! I have a really hard time knowing if somebody actually wants me to do something unless they are specific about the task and direct it towards me completely. The third one especially hits home for me, because if someone tells me, “We need to talk”, I will instantly spiral into a panic, wondering what I’ve done wrong, and freaking out internally about it to the point I sometimes feel physically sick. Tell me there and then what you want to talk about. Be specific. The same thing with like “can I private message you” or “what’s your email” when sent to a group chat it’s like *Why can’t you say this in the open, what have I done wrong* -- source link