hazeldomain:garbage-empress: vampirecatprince:red-gyarados: I’ve had to reread my emails up
hazeldomain:garbage-empress: vampirecatprince: red-gyarados: I’ve had to reread my emails up to a dozen times to take out unneeded words and apologies, because being to wordy and apologetic can make you look less professional or confident. Fake it till you make it! Also, keep in mind that if you grew up around a single parent who did this and has this kind of history, you may have picked it up as a quirk. Me needing to prepare an airtight case for minor bullshit like I’m my own defense attorney: what do you mean this is a trauma response? Whoa you thought my over explaining was bad, now get ready for over-explaining followed by a TED talk about the deep rooted reasons why I over explain -- source link