berryartistic:       how I, a low libido repulsed ace, navigate enjoyable sex 

berryartistic:       how I, a low libido repulsed ace, navigate enjoyable sex  in this series:  ♠ intro to ace week  ♠ ace people are lgbtqiap+  ♠ ace doesn’t mean celibate  ♠ attraction and repulsion are different things  ♠ having or wanting sex doesn’t make you less ace  ♠ navigating enjoyable sex with low libido and repulsion  ️‍️   ♠ acearo intersection (and conclusion)   I’ve been getting questions about how to navigate sex repulsion and low libido when you still want to have sex for your own enjoyment, and the answer is you really just gotta think and talk about it for like…. hours and hours and hours. hours and hours of serious and unsexy talk. obviously this is easier if you have a long-term and respectful sexual partner who can learn what you do and don’t like, but if conversations about all sorts of preferences could be normalised and separated from stigma, a lot more people could be having much more enjoyable sex! and it goes without saying that if you don’t want to have sex for any reason, you should never ever feel obligated to do so, and narratives that you are broken or lacking in some way are simply wrong. not wanting sex is completely valid, and it always will be! tomorrow will be the final topic, and it’ll be about acearo intersection. hopefully in the future I will get to do more comics based on FAQs I received this aceweek that weren’t covered in this series! ✨ my other comics // my twitter // support ✨ -- source link

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