bigyedi-blog: daniel549549: To most people, domination, or being a Dominant means only to love kinky
bigyedi-blog: daniel549549: To most people, domination, or being a Dominant means only to love kinky fuckery, and dishing out punishments, and submission, or being a sub means only to love degradation and desiring punishments that are painful, yet arousing. Hardly a few realize what it’s all about. It’s way more than just craving someone’s body. It’s about craving their bodies, mind, and soul in the most carnal way there is. A Dom wishes to truly own his sub, to make sure she feels safe and comfortable with him, and his want for protecting and caring for her outweighs his desire to take her every single time. In the same way, a sub wishes to truly give herself to her Dom, to belong to him and be a part of every single event of his life. Being a sub doesn’t mean she has to submit to every man that she encounters. A Dom has to earn her submission, had to prove himself worthy of her if he wishes to own her. Most think that none, or just one party benefits from such a relationship, but they couldn’t be more wrong. In a Dom/sub relationship, both draw from each other like an unending reservoir. It’s not only the sub who learns discipline, it’s the Dom as well. This relationship teaches us control and discipline, and one cannot teach something to someone if he/she isn’t sure about it at first. A Dom may whip and torment his sub all he wants but at the end of the day, he’s the one kissing her welts and caressing her skin. A sub gladly presents herself to him, so that at times, he can let his frustration out on her, knowing full well that he’ll never truly harm her, and that’s why she isn’t scared to let him have his way with her. Who said a Dom and his sub can’t have a normal relationship. They can be anything they want to the outside world, can also be a normal couple, but at the end of the day, they are back to what they truly are, desiring each other in a way one can only find in a Dom/sub relationship, because, that dynamic, that intensity, and that burning passion is usually a bit dull in other relationships, no offense to anyone who disagrees. In the end, both are wrapped around each other, their worlds intertwined, their carnal desires at their peaks, only wanting to take and give, and to cherish the most beautiful relationship there is on this Earth. This is one relationship that brings us closer to our true selves, and helps us find meaning to our lives. Live it, and you’ll see the wonders of it, and will find yourself attempting things you never could’ve even fathomed. I really don’t think it could be put much better overall -- source link