radmoon:anyever:fishfingars:uteropolis:dinahjanehansens:Britney when asked what she’
radmoon: anyever: fishfingars: uteropolis: dinahjanehansens: Britney when asked what she’s looking for in a guy. This happens with most women who get divorced. Most women who get divorced don’t want to be married again, but most men who get divorced do. Yet people say that marriage and divorce screw over men rather than women. Then why are men rushing back to it, & women are running from the hills? Wow, I didn’t know this, this is interesting! Why such difference? I wonder - but then I think I intuitively know the answer My mother has said to me “I’ve learned everything I need to learn from men” and my brother is astounded by why she wouldn’t want to be with someone after divorce and in old age. I know this goes without saying but guys really don’t get the female experience at all. Men have so much to gain from being married and women have so much to lose. Because men are emotionally and physically taxing and will suck you dry of all your happiness if you’re not extremely guarded. She knows it through pretty harsh experience and is honest about it. I appreciate it. She is at the financial point where she can say no to any man entering her life and just provide for her kids (she calls them her precious jewels, too cute.) How many woman would avoid the marriage trap if financial independence was assured to them as a single woman?? -- source link