emeraldbirdcollector: awesomlyautistic:colt-kun:simonalkenmayer:sophies-sideshow:mama-sally:
emeraldbirdcollector: awesomlyautistic: colt-kun: simonalkenmayer: sophies-sideshow: mama-sally: snakebitcat: fantastic-fantasy-fanfics: rivainibabe: thechrysalisamidst: bizarrolord: If your partner feels threatened when you want alone time: RUN. welp thats creepy This applies to you boys too- if your girlfriend won’t let you hang out with your friends, RUN No matter what gender you or your partner are, if they refuse to let you spend any time with your friends that’s a big sign of danger. GUESS WHAT MY EX BELIEVED Last time I reblogged this I lost ten followers, someone I liked blocked me, and I got hate mail in my inbox for several days. Let’s see what happens this time. Abuse begins with insecurity My ex wouldn’t even accept a ride from my friend who offered to drive us home in the pouring Orlando rain and instead forced us to walk 12 minutes in the rain, soaking my only pair of work shoes and giving me a cold. FUCKING RED FLAGS Let’s see how many followers I will lose over this! This is a serious red flag for abuse. If any person you date, of whatever gender or no gender, tries to separate you from your friends and family, and deny you any life outside of them, run as fast as you can. There is no way to have a healthy relationship with those sorts of rules. Period. That’s why I love my husband so much. We give each other space, we allow each other to miss one another. I want people to understand that there are people out there that want you to be yourself and enjoy life with or without them, that’s love. -- source link