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optimistic-pepperoni: sofie-cherie: optimistic-pepperoni: coldheaux: indie-luxe-escort: lexkruwontbackdown: I refuse to give this person notes but seriously - wtf? I LOVE my vanilla job, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t parts of it I absolutely hate sometimes. We are allowed to complain about the parts of our job that hurt us. If you think we’re hypocritical for complaining about a job we mostly love, try having clients that degrade your profession and character even as they utilize your services. Also, it’s not an “easy job for easy money”. Sex work is hard because you are at risk all the time. Fuck I’m only a CAM GIRL and I’m still at risk. My stuff is recorded and reposted all the time. Reposted pictures of me litter the Internet. Facial economics is getting to a point where people could reasonably find out who I am. All types of sex workers have to deal with the very real threat of stalking, rape, harassment; that and giving a REALISTIC fantasy we may or may not be into to clients we most likely aren’t into is HARD. And no, we aren’t “too stupid to make anything of ourselves”. Plenty of sex workers are educated or had/have full time vanilla careers; I happen to have a kick ass job managing a research laboratory. I know others who are marketers, writers, lawyers, medical professionals, etc. And let’s not act like, regardless of education or vanilla career (which are shitty indicators of “making something of yourself”) owning your shit and running your business takes a hell of a lot of smarts. To wrap this already to long post up you can’t “not be against prostitution” and then say prostitutes are stupid/lazy/untalented. That “I’m not sexist but” bs won’t fly here. To be fair, i’d want to kill my clients no matter what i did for a job. Sex worker, accountant, lawyer, customer service rep for Target.People annoy me and i hate them and if they even look at me the wrong way in a paid capacity i probably would want them dead.Sitting on my ass all day avoiding humans doesn’t pay the rent though, so … Lmao I complain about literally everything, so I should just off myself? And i hated men and thought they were fucking gross before I started sex work. What a dumb bitch Like who goes into sex work because they think all men are great and just looooove having sex with oldies (outside of tv)?? It’s not like I can complain about it anywhere else, and I LOVE to complain And it’s not like most of the guys we complain about don’t 100% deserve it. I’ll gladly talk about my good bookings too, but a significant portion of my clients are boundary pushing swines with poor personal hygiene, I should be allowed to fucking complain. Just like they’re allowed to leave a bad review if I’m not up to their standards (and they do). Once their time is up, I am no longer required to pretend that I love them, I did my part. Also good bookings are rarely that interesting to talk about; he respected my boundaries and wasn’t weird isn’t really something I need to vent… It also doesnt feel right to brag unless of course you’ve had a string of bad luck and the universe owes you. -- source link
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