optimistic-pepperoni:blacksugarbarbie:omgwtfmia:bisou-bisou-bisou-bisou:omgwtfmia:Cali bab
optimistic-pepperoni: blacksugarbarbie: omgwtfmia: bisou-bisou-bisou-bisou: omgwtfmia: Cali babes, just to let you know about this self entitled man! It may seem like it’s not a big deal but for me it is. I’ve been called fat by broke ass bitches many times but it never hurt me, because let’s face it, I have thick thighs and hips. But being called lazy is damn hurtful and I think he did it all intentionally. Salty af, probably couldn’t afford you anyway. Even if he could, he does not deserve you. I got rejected for a nice, substantial stipend because I am plus sized (I’ve got a zaftig body type, I’m buxom af), he told me I was an “oversized black woman”… I have no qualms about my body and I work out myself 3-4 times a week! In better shape than most of my skinnier friends. I’ve also never had a problem catching a dick, ever. The truth is, even if you were skinny, he would find another thing to pick at about you. Fat shame and fat hate is so real, and I’m happy you stood up for yourself against this piece of shit. Guys like this just want you to lower your self esteem for their own sick perversions. You are bright, beautiful, and it is what is on the inside that matters. Find someone who will appreciate you for who you are. So many fish out here and you’re the real catch. Don’t let a shallow old man ruin that for you. This shit needs to stop manifesting in society. Thank you @bisou-bisou-bisou-bisou your words are nicely put. I have no problems being called fat. It’s like “oh, you have brown eyes” it’s a fact. But bruh, this is tinder. I know thick thighs are not everyone’s cup of tea so I put a full body pic in a bodycon dress. I’m not hiding anything. But you’ve been buttering me up for 3 days then you come up to me to tell me how should I look? If you unmatched I probably wouldn’t even have noticed!! I also think these Cali men see all the beautiful model-like girls around -no shade- and these beautiful girls doesn’t even look at their broke ass, so they get mad at rest of the women like “y u no look like em?!??!!!?” Lol. You sound like a smart, hardworking, beautiful lady. Don’t let this man make you feel less than worth. Keep your head up baby girl!! Wow he’s not even trying to hide his manipulative and abusive tendencies, he’s trying to knock your confidence down so you’re more malleable, if he was that fussed about your body beforehand he wouldn’t have contacted you. It’s like the men who message me asking me to cut my rates because I’m above the size they’re looking for, they’ll always find some excuse to try and make you feel less than Um, guys. This dude is a straight up sociopath. Can you please not take anything he’s said as even words. Just take everything he’s written and flush it down the toilet. This is the sort of guy who would stab you to death and tell you it was your own fault.Pay no attention to him, keep right on walking please. -- source link