bouncyamy: So I had my first threesome recently, so I’ve got that going. I’ve tripped ov
bouncyamy: So I had my first threesome recently, so I’ve got that going. I’ve tripped over a lovely, kinky, poly couple. There was the standard discussion of boundaries, consent, likes, dislikes over a bunch of lunches. Then we all ended up in my bed doing naughty thing. The man in the couple was taking the pictures. It was an all-round entertaining experience, I like to think. I’ve never kissed the lipstick off someone so quickly but hey. I got a bit tied up and used, ended up with some scratch marks on me. Things ended up in my butt, I learned the value of laying out big towels on the bed to avoid mess. Life goes great. One thing that stood out to me was how much more pleasant sex can be when you have a rapport with your partners. Most of my sexual encounters have been once-off things like drunk hookups. I’m coming to realise that the notion of non-stop, raunchy fucking is not for me at all. In fact, much of a good session of sex is just the space in between and if you can fill that space with fun conversation and mutual interests, then you win. I’m beginning to make a point of weaning myself off of completely sterile single-night hookups and aiming to find sex buddies who I get along with as friends at the very least. Sex without strings attached has always been incredibly dissatisfying to me and I’m starting to learn why. There’s just no… chemistry. And when there’s even a little, things are greater. Another hurdle I’m dealing with is the limits of my fluidity. I’m firmly in the camp that human sexuality is fluid and transitory, and not just because my textbooks say so. However, I’m also learning that when I’m with men, I reach the limit of my sexuality. It is extremely frustrating that I can like men but I can’t be intimate with them. When there’s the prospect of sexual intimacy with men, I balk. I can’t picture myself kissing a man, or really cuddling with a man, because I categorise those as intimate acts. But oddly, I can let a dude fuck me because frankly, I don’t think that’s an intimate act. However, I wonder how frustrating it is for my male partners (now up to 2) that they are with somebody who isn’t truly into them. It frustrates me that I’m not bisexual the way I want to be because I’m missing out on such fantastic people. As is, I’m bumping against the limit of my sexual fluidity and really, everyone has boundaries and limits. The next step is to work out how to handle this boundary. With a rather large order of sex toys recently happening and some more clothing orders, February is shaping up to be a pretty great month. Things I can look forward to in that span: more threesomes; dying in the sweltering heat; sticking new things up my ass; photographing the previous in new ways and so forth. I’ll also be signing off posts from here on out with a link to my Patreon account so nobody can truly escape my money grubbing ways. But nah really. There’s only a goal of like 60 bucks per month from all the total contributions. I can do a Jimmy Wales here and say if all of my followers gave… 1 cent per month, we’d all be done right now, so hey. Maintaining a consistent stream of quality porno content with lovely pictures, toys and outfits is time consuming and money intensive. While I don’t ask any money for the work itself, I do run a Patreon fund for new toys and clothes and apparatus for making more porn and keeping the train rolling. If you’re into it, give that link a click and please support me? My greatest thanks to those who do. It’s no large goal either - no funding shopping trips to New York or anything, just… a couple bucks a month or something. If all of my followers gave a cent every month, we’d be done here, but hey. -- source link