mhsawareness:danni-rants:septemberpoems:e-goddess:smallrevolutionary:hansbekhart:xsourpussx:egodram:
mhsawareness:danni-rants:septemberpoems:e-goddess:smallrevolutionary:hansbekhart:xsourpussx:egodram:fuckyeahsexpositivity:blackwaifu:goldstarprivilege:appropriately-inappropriate:hellomissmayhem:gaywitchesforabortions:tehbewilderness:the-fly-agaric:bajo-el-mar:Reading about abusive men and the way they think. Very unsettling and an incredible book so far. Here are my very professional notes.what book is this?This is from “Why Does He DO That” by Lundy Bancroft.I’m so glad I’m seeing more and more Lundy Bancroft quotes on my dash because this book CHANGES THE LIVES OF ABUSE VICTIMS.The programs run for rehabilitating abusive men through the courts? Bancroft DESIGNED THEM. His programs are replicated ALL OVER THE WORLD.He literally wrote THE book on abuser rehabilitation.Here’s a link to a pdf copy. If you haven’t read this book yet, read this book.Can we talk about how it seems like the entirety of the book is online on PDF, this making it accessible to anyone with an internet connection?That is how we stop abuse.We enable everyone to know what it looks like, so that when it happens, they can shut it down.Arm yrself with knowledge!Changed my life, would reccomend.Reblogging for the PDF link.—BBAlways reblogging because this isn’t just a partner abuse thing, this is a common abuse tactic PERIOD: Parents, siblings, bosses, general assholes, etc…http://www.pdf-archive.com/2014/07/20/why-does-he-do-that/why-does-he-do-that.pdfnew link (the old one is broken)Pretty sure I’ve reblogged this like eight times, don’t care.Forever reblog.http://www.pdf-archive.com/2014/08/24/why-does-he-do-that/Reposting the link.I have it saved, should the links mess upLinks don’t work but still importantNew link here.I’ve read this book, it is good and highlights the common stereotypes that abusers themselves made up to win sympathy as well as the myriad of things they claim cause them to be abusive (which don’t) and the ways in which abusers confuse, manipulate and ultimately abuse people which can make it difficult for their victims to make sense of. -- source link