malaysianchinesehotwifestag: lillybgoddess: Vixen AdviceHello everyone, it’s been 2 weeks sinc
malaysianchinesehotwifestag: lillybgoddess: Vixen AdviceHello everyone, it’s been 2 weeks since our last Hotwifing 101 so I want to make this one a good one. Starting it off is todays episode on Vixen Advice.I have hit on so many topics so far but I haven’t spoken much to the Hotwife herself. To you Vixens out there reading this…I’m sure you are learning the ropes as you go and I’ve heard some awesome stories from some of you already. Many of you handle things pretty much the same way that I do but some of you are still working through the issues. Heres my first bit of advice to you Vixens out there. (Btw, Vixen is another term used for Hotwife in case you didnt know)…..How are you handling the choosing process? Are you just looking for the first guy that is willing to play? Or are you taking your time finding the right one to play with? You know I’m gonna tell you that quality trumps quantity. And it isnt easy finding the right ones to play with but if you’re patient…Mr. Right Bull will present himself. Also, are you exposing yourself completely to the first guy you chat with? What I mean by that is….Are you sending pics, are you video chatting, does he know where you live and work, does he know your name? If you answered yes to any of these…you should be aware that you just made a very dangerous move. I dont recommend doing any of this with someone right away. And some of these things I dont recommend doing EVER. I know we consider ourselves free and open and independent…and even sluts and whores (not meant in the bad way). But we have to show enough respect for ourselves and our families to keep the information secure and safe from strangers and guys that you have no idea about their past or their motive. I’ll be the first to admit that I’m a naughty slut and a naughty whore. No one calls me that but my Stag and it isnt the way you or others may think. And there are men out there who prey on women like myself. Looking for opportunities to get me or you alone and do whatever they want. That might sound exciting in some ways but just watch Forensic Files one evening and you’ll change your mind.Also, are you not caring for your Stag? Does he question if you are his? Does he have fears that you disregard? Do you do things behind his back or without notifying him? If you answered any of these with Yes….then you have a big problem on your hands. He is your focus sweetheart! He is the reason you are a Hotwife. If you dont have that mentality then why are you doing this? Because if you just want to play the field on your own, then why be a Hotwife at all? Make your total focus….your Stag! Do not betray him or his wishes in this lifestyle.Lastly for today, I want to ask you Vixens a question and you can feel free to answer in the comments below. Are you being true to yourself in this lifestyle? Is this something you desire for yourself as well as for your hubby or are you just doing this because your hubby wanted it so much ..you feel like you have to do it? That’s it for this weeks episode. .This will be a weekly posting just for Hotwives, Stags, Bulls, and Swingers. Every Tuesday I will focus on your questions, comments, and statements of the Hotwife lifestyle. Feel free to direct all questions today through the submit feature of my Blog! Thank you and Happy Hotwifing! ~LillybGoddessFollow my other blog @hotwifelifestyle101 for all archived questions and episodes. Also all things Hotwives! Who can I not share this? -- source link