athenadark:durnesque-esque:someoneintheshadow446:tree-of-blue-squirrel:cognitivedissonance:hakuna-mi
athenadark:durnesque-esque:someoneintheshadow446:tree-of-blue-squirrel:cognitivedissonance:hakuna-mituna:dreamsofkittens:abbysucks:mundanematt:The swinging pendulum of sexism arrives! Ladies, Men can get raped too. Remember that.Just to put some perspective in this for those people who may be confused at how a guy can get a boner but not really be sexually charged, so to speak…Ladies, you know how your nipples get hard for seemingly no reason (sans stepping into a cold room anyway)? You go to put on a shirt and your nipples are poking out like they haven’t seen daylight in over 40 years? Or you brush them up against something and BAMMO, nipple town? Or someone slaps you in the tits and they’re standing full mister?You get where I’m going with this? Your sexual organs are built to respond to stimulus, be it one you personally find sexually gratifying or not. Saying a dude who gets a boner while he’s otherwise not consenting to sex is lying about the fact would be like saying any girl who gets wet while getting raped is actually enjoying it/wants it.so… you know… dont be stupid about this people. guys can get raped too and girls can most definitely be the fuckin perps.People who think men don’t get raped are just as bad as the people who think men can’t control their urges to rape women. It happens less often, but it still happens, and it’s just as traumatizing for the male victim. You can’t just disregard a victim based on their gender.Can we also include that females can rape other females and males can rape other males too?Every.Single.Person.Can.Be.A.Victim.Or.An.OffenderAll of the above.Basically, if a person doesn´t give you any verbal consent, IT IS NO CONSENT!ALSO! If they are under influences of legal or illegal drugs/alcohol, IT IS STILL NOT A CONSENT!like seriously, what´s so hard to understand about that geezAlso a common response to rape is to freeze in fear and allow it to happen. So just because a person didn’t scream or fight back, doesn’t mean they consented to it. This doesn’t begin and end with rape either. I live and work with men who get sexually assaulted on the regular at their jobs because “they’re men, they must want to get touched” “men always want sexual attention.”Consent is for everyone and every situation. Period. In WW1 to treat mutism caused by Shell-shock [PTSD] the British government used electroshock therapythey would literally zap the soldier until he screamedwhat they noted during this procedure [we can call it torture] was that almost all of the subjects ejaculated but all of them gained erectionsthese men were tortured with electricity until they cried out, which was difficult for them because of their ptsd, and they almost invariably had a sexual reactionso no - just because he has an erection doesn’t mean he wants sex -- source link