deaddruid:meangirlvibes:modestmgmtofficial:wattpad fic titles are so funny i can’t breathethe preval
deaddruid:meangirlvibes:modestmgmtofficial:wattpad fic titles are so funny i can’t breathethe prevalence of “cute” kidnapping/arranged marriage/etc motives and common usage of those as an introduction to a romantic story is worrying asf tho. the way our society conditions girls to conflate violence and dominance with attraction and love and find those concept attractive/be aroused by them something somethingit sounds silly but reading one direction kidnapping/violence based fics on instagram was 100% my introduction to finding bdsm roleplay at age 12 on the same app. the very first sexual content i ever consumed was one direction kidnapping smut and this led me to finding similar non-one direction content which led to me finding bdsm/kink roleplay content. this was all on instagram between the ages of 12 and 14. after that i moved onto watching porn/reading erotica but even in those cases i immediately searched for dub-con, non-con, blackmail, kidnapping based stuff etc. because that was the only sexual content i knew to consume. i went through puberty watching women who looked like me be abused and was told it was erotic. before even having my first kiss, i was watching rape porn. i spent all of high school consuming this kind of material and feeling horrible and ashamed because i didn’t want to find violence arousing but i didn’t know how to stop. i no longer consume this kind of porn and i can easily fantasize about healthy sex now. that said, that part of myself is still there. as much as i wish i could, i will probably never fix it or get rid of it.the prevalence of porn on the same social media sites as actual children is dangerous and will 100% become the gateway to more taboo and extreme forms of sexual violence, especially for young girls -- source link