littlecuriousprincess: Being a black girl in the BDSM/kink community has been difficult. I truly fee
littlecuriousprincess: Being a black girl in the BDSM/kink community has been difficult. I truly feel, metaphorically and literally, like the “black sheep” in a lot of crowds. To be honest, it took me awhile to be a part of the community. Whenever kinky images or literature were presented to me, it always contained white people. It made me feel like wanting to be tied up, wanting to have a Daddy dom, wanting to crawl on the floor like a dog, were all “white people shit”. This, on top of my own struggles of having PTSD and DID, and being chronically disabled, and being genderfluid, and being queer??? It’s definitely not hard to feel like this community was not made to accommodate someone like me. However, over the last few years, after being a part of a kink group on my college campus, and meeting other kinky PoC (although very few in number, I might add), I felt more open to exposing myself to this community. Because at the end of the day, these kinks and fetishes that I have are mine. There’s power in my submission. There’s strength in my desire to be broken down. BDSM and kink has opened a lot of new avenues for me to express myself as a hypersexual individual, and to embrace the parts of me that may not be considered acceptable by society. Shit, being black, queer, trans, and disabled are all things looked down on by society. I’d might as well enjoy my sexuality and my melanin. (With @omgsafeword; photo cred: @sorlium) Thank you so much for submitting @beware-thecuddler!!! (Do not remove the caption/18+ only) -- source link
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