secluded-delusions: thewingedwalrus:taaamekaa:erikkillmongerdontpullout:king-emare: I think bo
secluded-delusions: thewingedwalrus: taaamekaa: erikkillmongerdontpullout: king-emare: I think bout this all the time A guy I graduated with had a gf that was a junior at the time and he turned down scholarships for college to wait a year for her to finish her senior year so they could go to college together. Fast forward to now and they had a terrible breakup and he’s mad as fuck that he ever did that/didn’t listen to the people around him. Don’t sabatoge yourself for anyone even if you think you love them and they love you. If they loved you they would want you to take all the opportunities and grow. Don’t give unnecessary sacrifices. Lmao fuck man My parents married just before my mom finished undergrad and then immediately after their honeymoon she flew halfway across the country to go to medical school while my dad had to stay behind to finish his degree. She cried the whole way there and they were apart for a while, but as soon as he finished he joined her. They’re still going strong after 33 years and they’re the cutest damn middle aged couple I’ve ever known. Don’t give up important opportunities for someone you love. Find a way around it. Make a plan that benefits both of you TOGETHER. A significant other worth having is one who supports your ambitions, even if it’s hard. “If they loved you they would want you to take all the opportunities and grow.” -- source link