I’ve seen a lot of pictures like this shared by the girls I work with, and I just want to make one t

I’ve seen a lot of pictures like this shared by the girls I work with, and I just want to make one thing perfectly clear: this shit is not cute. It’s not romantic. It’s not okay. This is an absolutely insane way to think, and it’s a toxic and abusive way to behave. We’re pretty quick to recognize and call out men’s abusive behaviour, but women’s abuse of their male partners is tolerated, laughed at, and even boasted about on social media. Women and girls can get away with screaming at their boyfriends, isolating them, controlling them, spying on them, belittling them, or even slapping them around. We don’t call those women “abusers” - we call them “petty” or “insecure” or “jealous” or a dozen other cutesy names that minimize the damage they do. It’s not cute, it’s not excusable, and it’s not funny. If you have a boyfriend, that man is your partner and your equal. He is not your child. If you’re jealous and insecure, that’s something that YOU need to deal with for yourself - it does not give you the right to remove all female friendship, companionship and support from your boyfriend’s life. If you can’t handle the idea of another woman sending your boyfriend a casual text, liking his Instagram pictures, paying him a compliment or trying to be his friend without coming completely fucking unglued and making threats, you’re not ready to be in a relationship. Period.  -- source link

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