Rules when I’m in your company1) If I call you or FaceTime you, **you will pause your game and

Rules when I’m in your company1) If I call you or FaceTime you, **you will pause your game and talk to me for the maximum of 45 40 minutes after then you may continue your game even if I’m still on the phone to you NO EXCUSES why you CAN NOT PAUSE YOUR GAME because your game is irrelevant.2) No starting a new match or game if you are due to meet me or I’m coming round to see you or if I have finished work.3) You will greet me with love and affection and make me feel extremely welcome as well there will be no such thing as “in a minute” or “after this game” because your game is irrelevant to our relationship.4) If I text you whilst you’re on your game you have approximately 5 minutes to text back otherwise this relationship is over, you are only excused unless your there dying on the spot in your room NOT ON YOUR GAME!5) If I allow you on your game whilst I’m in your company before you make contact with the squad or you PlayStation I must be settled with something to do.6) You have approximately 1 hour on your game if I allow that when I’m in your company.7) DON’T FORGET TO GIVE ME LOVE AND ATTENTIONI name agree to follow these rules when my girlfriend name is in my company, if I do not follow any of these rules my PlayStation and games will be terminated and she will not replace any of the damage. I promise to give my girlfriend all the attention she wants and I promise not to ignore her for my game because my PlayStation is not worth the loss of my girlfriend. I promise to be the most loving boyfriend I can be and will not be tempted to break any of these rules for fear of the consequences.This. Is. Toxic. Telling your partner that their hobbies are worthless, demanding their immediate attention on pain of breakup, and threatening to destroy their possessions is a toxic and horrible way to treat someone. The fact that this is a woman talking about a man’s video games doesn’t make this cute, and it doesn’t make it okay. If a man made a woman sign a contract regulating how often she could text her friends or read a book or do her makeup in his presence, where he threatened to start breaking her things if she disobeyed, people would be rightfully outraged and tell her to leave. But because this is a woman threatening and controlling a man (women, always trying to get men off their video games, har har), we see it as a joke and not a serious problem. It is not fair or reasonable to demand that your partner drop everything for you, every single time you demand it. It is not fair or reasonable to tell your partner that they are never allowed to have bad days or stressful days where they just want to zone out and do something they enjoy for a while. It is not fair or reasonable to demand that your partner ask permission before taking part in their hobbies. This isn’t a situation that will end well. In your “best” case scenario, you end up in a toxic, codependent relationship where violent temper tantrums are seen as a legitimate means to control your partner. Worst case scenario, your partner just builds up hatred and resentment toward you before they tell you to get the fuck out of their life, and you find someone weaker to bully. If you have a genuine issue with feeling ignored in your relationship, then you need to have a mature, adult conversation about it and find compromises that work for both of you. You don’t make your partner sign a behavioural contract like you’re a teacher trying to manage a misbehaving 6-year-old. Men are not children, and they do not deserve to be treated like children. It’s not funny. It’s not cute. Many men use video games as a hobby, a way to connect with friends, and a way of dealing with stress - it’s not fair to write those things off as worthless. Their hobbies deserve just as much respect as anyone else’s. If you can’t be in a relationship without having complete control over your partner’s time, you aren’t ready to be in a relationship at all.  -- source link

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