While, I would not use pain (makes my cock hard, don’t want to confuse things), I would no
While, I would not use pain (makes my cock hard, don’t want to confuse things), I would not hesitate to punish my girl if she made a mistake. After all, she wants to be perfect for me. So, she needs re-enforcement when doesn’t act perfectly. beggingforpermission: subgirlygirl: I know everyone has different likes and dislikes, kinks and quirks. And I really don’t want someone doing something they’re not comfortable with, simply to please me. But even if well-behaved (I am), there will inevitably come a time when correction is necessary. And as much as I love physical ‘play,’ if I know the intent behind the blows is rooted in discipline, the effect is not pleasurable. I like being spanked. I don’t like being spanked when I’m in trouble. Which is why I need a man who sees the necessity of physical punishments, who will not hesitate to take a strap or belt or (I can’t believe I’m saying this) cane to me if I get out of line or otherwise displease him. If order needs to be restored. Some people are visual learners. I learn by touch. I find I crave it more for the emotional validation than anything. If I’m not punished when I fuck up or cross the line, how do I know you really love and care about me? How do I know you see me as worthwhile? -- source link