I love having games like this with My girl. Several times when she is flying to see me, I give
I love having games like this with My girl. Several times when she is flying to see me, I give her little assignments. And I don’t see that not reaching the goal is a failure here. It was just a game. A couple of additional thoughts. In life, I expect My girl to live up the standards of performance we have established. Not reaching those goals has significant consequences. However, life is meant to be lived, and part of human nature is to have games. Not reaching the goal here to some degree is just a continuation of the game. That said, everyone plays by their owns that they have set and established. Some girl may have a chance to reach that goal in that timeframe, but I can imagine it is not too many. The goal for My girl would be much less. I also think clamps would be involved as well. subgirlygirl: beggingforpermission: subgirlygirl: heygingergirl: desiresjourney: beggingforpermission: femsubdenial: beggingforpermission: Fantasy: The whole week before her visit to see her long-distance partner and Dominant, she had extra assignments. “Before bed tonight, edge for me 5 times.” “Immediately when you get home from work today, turn on skype and kneel for 10 minutes for me with nipple clamps on while I watch you.” “Go to bathroom right now and give me 100 firm, slow circles on your clit.” They came at random times and places, in addition to their normal phone and skype visits. Never were any of the assignments an orgasm. The night before her visit, he sent her one final text: “Make sure you put in your carry-on your medium njoy plug, a full 3 oz bottle of lube, and your ben wa balls. You’ll need easy access to all of these tomorrow. Text me as soon as you are through security. Get to the airport early.” She woke up early the next day, nervously. She did a quick warm water enema, as she was sure there would be anal play in her future that day, ate a small breakfast since that was all her stomach could handle, and moved the designated toys from her checked luggage to her carry on. She was already so excited to see him and with a week of tease and denial on top of that she was squirming. She got to the airport 3 hours before her boarding time, and was through security with 2 and a half to spare. The reply read: My, we are an eager slut for me this morning. I know what a long day this will be for you, with 2 lay over stops. I want to make this as interesting and frustrating as possible. When you get here, I want you to be desperate to cum for me. Desperate for my hands, my kiss, my cock. But just because you are desperate for it, doesn’t mean you don’t still have to earn it. So your assignment this morning is to go to find your gate and then find the nearest bathroom. Once there, you will enter the stall farthest from the entrance, unless it is the only handicap one, then you will move one stall over. You will be there a while and I wouldn’t want you to be rude. Once there, you will generously lube up your njoy and place it in your ass for me. Take your time, move it back and forth, stretch yourself before you allow it to fully seat. Then sit down on the toilet, and rub your pussy for me. Give me an edge. Then remove the njoy slowly to the count of 5, hold it for another 5, and slowly replace on a last 5. Add lube as needed. Repeat. Again. And again. 10 minutes before your boarding time, stop. Put your ben wa balls in, go wash your hands, and be at your gate by 5 minutes before boarding. Text me with how many times you were able to edge for me before your flight. If you are late texting me, I will remove 5 edges from the total you have supplied. During the flight, every time you think about your needy pussy, or your ass, or any of the dirty, sexy things we will do when you arrive, squeeze your pussy for me. Feel those balls increasing the ache. In addition, I want 1000 kegel squeezes after boarding and before take off - to make that time go faster. I hope you experience some turbulence. I can’t wait to hear what a bumpy ride does for those balls. I will keep updated on the airline site as to your arrival and departure times, so you don’t have to worry about that. But when you exit the airplane, find the next gate, and the next nearest bathroom. Text me when you are there, remove the ben wa balls, and repeat the instructions from the first airport. When you arrive at the gate again, 5 minutes before your boarding time for your second flight, text me your total from the second leg. And don’t forget the 1000 kegel squeezes before the ascent. We’ll repeat this entire sequence a final time in the third airport. I will pick you up at the arrivals gate - leave both the njoy and balls in until I tell you otherwise. When you arrive at my home, I will let you know your results - if you have completed a sufficient number of edges for me, I will fuck your pussy and let you cum for me, as many times as you want. You will have earned it. I will love bringing you over the edge time after time. The feel of you shuddering in my arms and the look of gratitude for your satisfaction - I can’t wait. BUT if you have not completed enough edges, instead I will use that ass of yours that you have been preparing for me all day - so be gentle with that njoy, we don’t want any tearing that would not allow me to fuck your ass if you haven’t earned your orgasms. I will fuck your tight little asshole until I cum and leave you dripping, aching, and frustrated. You will look at me desperately, pleading in your eyes. And I will love it. Really, it’s a win-win situation for me. So get to it girl. Time’s a wasting. He decided that her total would be the number of minutes she had available to do her edges. So at 2 hours 30 minutes, minus 10 minutes for boarding and 15 minutes to find her gate and get her njoy in, that means for the first leg her total was already 125 edges. It’s not IMPOSSIBLE to hit that goal, but very, very unlikely. He isn’t going to tell her the formula or the total, simply that she fell short. He doesn’t want to waste the eagerness from her first week of denial on the first night of the trip! But, he felt, it was fair to give her a chance. Wow. That’s an intense assignment. Think you could do it? Would ‘as many orgasms as you’d like’ actually be an incentive or would you prefer a promise that success would be rewarded with the most intense tease & denial weekend he could deliver? I do enjoy bouts of very detailed assignments (the more detailed, the better). Airports are boring places. What better thing to do during the lay overs than go to the bathroom and edge for someone because they said so? With a required 15 second break (with anal play!) between each edge, yum. And I *hate* that time after boarding and before take off. I spend the whole time convincing myself that I don’t really want to escape the plane, I want to go where I’m heading. So a distraction during that time in the form of kegel exercises? That would work really well. But no, I’d have absolutely no chance of making that many edges. Probably. 99.5% sure I’d have no chance. But oh, that .5%. Especially if I didn’t know how long the odds were…I’d be motivated. I’d be very motivated. I love the idea that I earned my orgasm. I like a challenge. Also, it’s not denial for me if I don’t want it. If I’m not willing to work for it. I LOVE having orgasms. Seriously, I came 6 separate times in the last 14 hours. I definitely see them as rewards and as a generally good thing. « whispers » The thing is, I never really know, when I ask if I can cum, if I want the answer to be no or yes. And even after the fact, I still am never really sure. Because a part of me, it wants to suffer in frustration, and a part me wants to cum. So, no matter the result, I’m never fully satisfied. I’m always left wanting. The only thing I’m really sure of is that I don’t want the decision about it (or in this case, the requirements for orgasm) to be of my determination. WOW! Thats some serious work- I love giving my sluts tasks, but thats over the top! ~Sir You’re not kidding!!!! Over the top is right! I agree… and I hate this. Setting someone up to fail is a dangerous move. (He flat-out said that success was unlikely…) I need to be with someone who wants me to succeed. Who gives me challenges, and who challenges me in general. This kind of thing would do little more than build resentment. But… whatever. I’m sure some will like it :) Wow, so this was a fantasy I wrote for New Partner. I wrote it, and then texted him that he should go read it. It was based on a dream I had last night. His primary is flying in today for the week, and I’ll probably see him publicly but not personally for the next week or so. I realized that my brain had basically sexualized her visit, and put myself in her place, in an imagined scenario. Based entirely on my sexual interests and preferences. And yes, it’s a little extreme. Which is why it is labelled “Fantasy”. And I agree, I wouldn’t want to be set up to fail. It’s important that I succeed and see myself as a success in his eyes. If I were constantly “failing” it would be a problem. If he made me feel like I failed him often, that would be a problem. If this was the normal way of things, I wouldn’t be able to remain in that relationship. This was written by the sub. The point was that he had already decided that he didn’t want her to cum that night, but was giving her the “chance” to anyways. He probably would have implied such in earlier conversations. He was mainly providing her with something to do and think about in the airport and while preparing for take off to get her mind off of flying (I’m scared of a god-knows-how-heavy metal cage flying through sky going lord-knows-how-fast. I do it, because I’m a big girl, but it goes better if I have distractions.) You have to understand, my primary fetish is orgasm control and denial. I would expect someone who was not really into orgasm denial to enjoy the stakes of this type of “game”. And if you didn’t enjoy being slightly micro-managed when you are stressed out, this also wouldn’t do anything for you. It was written to address my specific interests and preferences. And I can completely see how you would read “set up to fail” into the scenario. But the thing is, it’s not really “failure” if she doesn’t hit that number, any more than it’s a “failure” if he makes her guess a number from 1-10 (or 1-20 or 1-100, depending on how generous he is being) and she guesses wrong and so doesn’t get to cum that night. I suppose it depends a lot on the impression that the Top gives. If she hits X number, say, he might tell her how good she was to do that many edges for him. To intentionally deny herself for his pleasure that many times. And in a public place, too! But that wasn’t the magic number to have orgasms that night. Congrats! You just won a night of ass-fucking and tease & denial :) As long as the glint in his eye and the smile on his face says he is still pleased with you, what more matters? And for all you know, she just might do a couple of edges fewer than she could. Because she would rather “fail”. And they both kinda know it. Knowing me, I’d go back and forth all day between trying to get as many in as possible and trying to slow it down, and I couldn’t decide which way I’d rather it go. The actual great thing about the scenario, though, is that when she arrived they would have the whole car ride back to talk before she finds out whether or not her number was sufficient for a night of orgasms. And if, after talking to her, he determines that what she needs is a night of orgasms (whether that is because she needs the feeling of success or she needs the orgasms) he can always tell her that yes, it was enough. Even - maybe especially - in my fantasies, the Dom takes very good care of his toy. And always, not breaking your toys is a top priority. If they are broken, you can’t play with them anymore! Well, at least not until you put them back together again. But that’s a whole different discussion. Oh, wow. I didn’t think of… well, most of that. (Alternate title: “subgirlygirl: schooled.”) Thank you for your eloquent thoughts. Yours, Despises Denial ;) -- source link