multiperv:I agree in general but actually am an exception to number 2. I prefer the request
multiperv: I agree in general but actually am an exception to number 2. I prefer the request being phrased as a polite request, or maybe as “I would like you to..” or “I want you to…” rather than just do this, even if the relationship is established. Submissive as I usually am just saying “do this” or “do that” coldly raises my resentment hackles up and puts me in the wrong mindset. And I know others like this. Just a note that you might want to find out what sort of person you’re dealing with and adjust accordingly if you want the best results. YMMV. bossymsbecky: Preaching to the converted At the risk of stating the obvious and here and there somewhat awkwardly phrased, but still a good list to circulate. This is a great cheat sheet. It includes some great reminders about how subs need and deserve to be treated. -- source link
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