dingdongyouarewrong:dingdongyouarewrong:dingdongyouarewrong:i cannot express the extent to which thi
dingdongyouarewrong:dingdongyouarewrong:dingdongyouarewrong:i cannot express the extent to which this rubs me the wrong way. no, these people are not kinky, they are just garden variety misogynists it’s actually not pro-kink to imply that kinky people can’t separate real life from fantasy and that they’re out here spouting misogynistic nonsense on the reg. all this does is 1) make excuses for misogynists by acting as though it’s okay because it’s just a kink, and 2) make kinky people out to be a bunch of sexist weirdos who regularly pontificate about how men are naturally the superiors of women. it’s not an “undiagnosed kink” these people are just out here parroting the last several hundred years of dominant social narratives. what is wrong with you #you think they woulda fuckin got with the ‘feet fetishizers dont do that’#like obviously if that was just a natural state of the Kinky But Didn’t Realize It we’d be seeing it a lot more ofte#and in different contexts#but its just the misogyny!! bc its just misogyny. lol.EXACTLY… they were so close. people who say this are not kinky and Into D/s But Don’t Know It they are literally just espousers of one of the most harmful, longstanding, and dominant ideologies there is!!! -- source link