When Peter turned sixteen, the change in his attitude and behavior was driving his stepmother crazy.
When Peter turned sixteen, the change in his attitude and behavior was driving his stepmother crazy.A *helpful* neighbor, who had raised four *well behaved” children, suggested she simply spank him.But isn’t he a little too old to spank, the harried mother questioned?Well, that depends in how *intense* you make it. You know just warning him that he Will be spanked will initiate, what I call, *the embarrassment response* and he will try to bluster his way out of it. But keep in mind you can’t spank a *big boy” by “playing paddy cake” on his backside. You want him to listen to you; you have to show him “you mean business”! That means you spank him hard enough to bring tears - Real Tears.That’s how (why) Peter found himself bare bottomed, across her knee, promising his stepmother to behave and be a good boy and do anything she wanted.The advise she received from that Helpful Neighbor, pretty much played out to script. Now when her teenager gets *too full of himself* and *act up* All she has to do, is to say to him, in a mother’s authoritarian tone; “Are You Asking For A Spanking Young Man”! Peter genuinely has a healthy fear of his stepmother and her right arm. -- source link
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