darknessindarling:I’m not submissive because I’m weak. I’m not submissive becaus
darknessindarling: I’m not submissive because I’m weak. I’m not submissive because I’m stupid. I’m not submissive because I’m a woman. I’m not submissive because I need someone else. I’m not submissive because I’m passive, self-depreciating, or flawed. As a feminist, I recognize that our society is deeply rooted in patriarchy and that there is massive gender inequality. In a lot of ways, women are socially trained to be quiet, subservient, submissive, and gentle. That’s not a choice most women make consciously. And I want to make a very important distinction: I am a submissive, but I’m not YOUR submissive. Outside of my relationship and dynamic, I’m not submissive. I kick ass and take names. I am on the road to a high-impact career coaching and serving other women, invest time in my self development, and teach about sexuality and personal transformation. I have absolutely no problem holding my boundaries and don’t owe anyone anything. Within my dynamic, embracing my submissive side and allowing myself to surrender to another that I trust is something that has brought incredible richness into my life. It’s a path that I choose of my own free will; a choice made with power, confidence, self-awareness, and dignity. We’re all living in a patriarchy system and society, whether we like it our not. We have a choice, however, in how we participate within that system. This is my choice. -- source link