strappedown: For most guys, bondage and sex are tightly related. You get tied up, you get edged or m
strappedown: For most guys, bondage and sex are tightly related. You get tied up, you get edged or milked, you eventually ejaculate, and then you get untied. There is nothing wrong with this…it is fantastic fun.But then there are guys like me. Getting off releases this energy, and once it’s gone the fun ends. If you remove ejaculation from the equation, the bondage itself becomes the thing…and that can last for hours or even days if you are willing to stay on the ride…and have a top who has the time and can devote his attention to you. When I find myself lucky enough to be securely restrained my juices always start to flow, I sink into this delicious and horny headspace. If I also realize that I’m being restrained in such a way that the top won’t have access to my cock, I sink to a whole different level. Maybe I’m in a thick wetsuit, or I’m wearing an athletic cup or chastity belt behind a wrestling singlet, or maybe even something like this guy pictured here in a onesie with possibly an overnight diaper on underneath. If it becomes clear that this session is going to be about pure bondage and not bondage with sexual release, it elevates all of it to a most frustratingly wonderful horny place that is hard to understand unless you are one of those guys, like me…who fucking enjoys the hell out of bondage when the whole point is just to be bound. -- source link