mistersbeard: mistersbeard.tumblr.com presents…THE ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE - aka Confidence bui
mistersbeard: mistersbeard.tumblr.com presents…THE ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE - aka Confidence building through self modeling.It’s an unfortunate thing to be living without confidence, but it’s also quite the scourge of our lifestyle. Littles and subs who have been used, abused and chewed up, then spit out will find themselves in a cycle of self deprication and loathing… causing them to have such little confidence that they end up becoming the “apologetic little” Scenario: most often they apologize and tell you that they are sorry for everything from bothering right down to basically existing. You get an apology for everything, and everything to them feels wrong… But yet, there exists hope! Self modeling is a behavior reversal technique that can transform you or your little from a timid and broken desperate mess… into a beautiful and confident pillar of enthusiasm and optimism in no time. But how do we do that!? How does one stop apologizing for everything when everything they do feels so wrong and like such a burden? Rephrase that apology. Scenario: you’re a little who goes on a long amount of verbal spillage trying to ask a simple question, but your anxiety and nervousness caused you to write a novel sized ask that seems like a giant run on sentence of incoherent thought…. and at the end you say “I’m sorry for bothering you” or something close to it. Flip that script! Rephrase that tired old irrational apology for no reason and turn it from something you end up beating yourself up over for no reason, into something positive and empowering that will convey your concerns for being too much, while also building confidence. How you say? Big long rant/question thing and then… “Thank you for being patient with me while I figured out how to say what I wanted to say” You’ve just turned an unnecessary apology in which you feel like you did something wrong, into a statement of gratitude and humility that will ultimately make the other person respect your awareness and strength. You said the same thing in a totally opposite way with a better result. Late for an appointment or a date? Turn that “I’m so sorry for being late..” into “Thank you for being patient and waiting for me” Turn that “I’m sorry dinner was late” into “I appreciate you waiting while I figured out that recipe” Take that “I’m sorry this project isn’t finished yet…” and make it into “I’m thankful that you are being patient while I finish this and work through a few issues” This self modeling technique is sure to change your entire life if practiced effectively and often… and within just a week or so, you should be seeing some results in your demeanor, confidence and ability to properly convey your thoughts without being consumed by fear, doubt and shame. So give it a try! And have your life forever changed. Find more educational content, bedtime stories and my writings here: https://mistersbeard.tumblr.com/post/156731271523/going-through-messages-i-noticed-that-a-lot-of-the Mistersbeard - A DD/lg blog - mistersbeard.tumblr.compaypal: mistersbeard@gmail.com patreon: Mistersbeard youtube.com/mistersbeard Devotional Training: Gratitude. -- source link
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