inventerius:Control measures for the outside world. (part 1) Holding hands For me a significant tr
inventerius: Control measures for the outside world. (part 1) Holding hands For me a significant trigger for my kink is controlling a girl physically. This is true inside the house but also outside to some extent. Over time I have been experimenting with ideas to physically control a girl while we are in the outside world. The upcoming posts will be about this subject. The simples control measure I have found is obviously me holding hand. By doing so she can not walk away from me unnoticed. I can steer her in a direction I want her to go or speed her up or slow her down. I can squeeze her hand softly to send her a signal no one else knows about or I can squeeze her hand hard to send her a warning or correct her. Notice that I call it me holding her hand as she might not be holding mine but have her hand in mine in an other way depending on the situation and her personality. I have 2 rules related to holding hands: 1. When I stick out my hand (like in the top picture) she is to place her hand in it without hesitating. 2. She is not to break hand contact unless I tell her to or push her hand out of mine. Holding hands between a man and a woman is for the vanilla world here in the Netherlands a fully acceptable and non suspicious action. Therefore it works well. It also does not require any special tools or adaptations. (click to see related posts) Devotional Training: Hand Cuntrol. -- source link
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