how-to-be-owned:The chain isn’t about not trusting her. It’s about giving her security a
how-to-be-owned:The chain isn’t about not trusting her. It’s about giving her security against herself. That she knows that even if she has a moment of weakness, he is still there even when not in the room. Not even a weakness of possibly leaving or moving from where he left her, but of the internal sort. She doesn’t even want to think about it. Even though he doesn’t know her thoughts, she does. And she wants to be his completely. She would know she betrayed him in her mind, and the guilt would make her suffer beyond the control of his hand. No one hurts her unless he wishes it, not even her to herself. The chain removes the possibility of such a betrayal. Devotional Training. -- source link