tiara-dreams: What fuels this overpowering need of wanting to make Him proud? 1. Structure: I thrive
tiara-dreams: What fuels this overpowering need of wanting to make Him proud? 1. Structure: I thrive on rituals, tasks and protocol. I like knowning what He expects from me. Detailed things that are a requirement and an expectation. I want to be His good girl and I will follow His lead always. I crave praise and rewards from my Leader, and I’m terrified of dissapointing Him, of failing Him. I will avoid that at all costs. 2. Standards: He sets the bar high, and helps me get there. He holds me accountable everyday. He is specific about His needs and wants. His standards are high, because He holds Himself to them too. There’s no “lacking” on either end of the equation. In THAT we are equals. High standards apply to the both of us. 3. Consistency: He brings stability to my life. He calms the storm within me. His attention to our relationship is a priority and He makes sure I’m well taken care of everyday. This consistency makes me trust Him, and I don’t trust lightly. 4. Trust: He is honest with me no matter what. We confide in each other and He works hard to make sure I know He values the power I’ve given Him over me and my life. He will never do anything that would break my spirit. I trust Him with the most delicate parts of my soul and with the darkest fantasies in my mind and He still finds me stunning. He has shown me the parts of Him that He doesn’t like and yet He still is the best Man He can be for me, for us, everyday. 5. Discipline: I fuck up. I’m not perfect, no matter how hard I try, and He knows it. He knows I’m not the bratty type, and He loves that about me. He knows when I fuck up is not on purpose. There’s a lesson to be learn and He makes sure I learn it very well. He doesn’t make excuses for me. He knows I need to learn. Discipline is important to Him. 6. Strength: He is a strong man. It shows not only in the way He carries Himself and takes over the room everytime He walks in, but in all areas of His life. His aura embraces me, comforts me, protects me and consumes me. He holds the reigns of our relationship in His strong hands and leads the way confidently. 7. Attention: There’s no doubt in my mind that I’m a priority to Him. Are there other relationships? Maybe, but that doesnt make me feel less. He makes sure I know How important I am to Him and how much He values everything I’ve given Him as well as the power He holds over me. He is attentive and caring and wants the best for me. 8. Love: He loves me. My devotion and commitment to Him are invaluable and He tresures my uniqueness and how rare it’s to find what we have. I love Him. His leadership, guidance and commitment to my well being and our happiness are exceptional. There’s no one better for me than Him. We were able to get to this beautiful point in our relationship due to a combination of how my submission was everything He was looking for and how His leadership was everything I’ve been dreaming of. We are deeply committed and connected. We know that we’re worthy of each other. Love keeps us together. Love make us unbreakable. I don’t want a pretender. I need someone that has a clear understanding of His role and what it takes to remain in control, that makes my submission easy and that entices me to willingly surrender to Him and all He has to offer. I want and NEED someone that makes me want to make Him proud everyday of my life. Devotional Training: Truisms. -- source link
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