ariaonthefloor: wynspers:“A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you&rdqu

ariaonthefloor: wynspers:“A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you” - Elbert HubbardSCC Writing Prompt 112If you could host a D/s dinner party, what would be the after dinner activity?So, perhaps to the slight dismay of some followers, I’m going to suppress the urge to write something purely based in fantasy involving elaborately fun sexy times had by all and go with the more realistic honest answer.I think if it were up to me the after dinner activities would be more focused on just having a safe space for people to socialise without having to suppress elements of their relationship dynamics. Honestly, it’s probably the only real reason I would hold a D/s specific dinner party. Don’t get me wrong, the fantasy of group sex, orgies and servicing Master Benjamin sexually in front of a group of people is most certainly a turn on, and one we may explore one day, but just as the relationship I have with Master Benjamin isn’t strictly about sex, the ways in which I would want to interact with friends in the community isn’t either. I would love to have a group of people over for dinner and have it be okay that I called him Master, or sat by his feet, or was fed scraps from his plate or was wearing a tail and collar but was still participating in a friendly and sociable way. So, I guess, if it were up to me? I would simply have a dinner party and try to create safe, comfortable spaces to accommodate everyone’s needs and simply try to encourage them to be themselves without fear of being judged.Perhaps that’s a bit of a boring answer, but it’s probably exactly how it were to go if I were organising it. Thanks, ~Wyn x Goals. Leaving out the fantasy after-dinner kink orgies actually kind of makes it hotter.But in real life I think it would turn out to be rather lukewarm, unless you really know hot to break the ice. Sadly, I think it’s almost easier to arrange group sex than it is to arrange some D/s’y dinner that really ends up involving D/s’y dynamics.Once the pants are off, people at least (usually) know what the name of the game is… -- source link
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