jeneregretterienn:begging. i’m learning (or trying to learn) how to beg now. as it’s s
jeneregretterienn: begging. i’m learning (or trying to learn) how to beg now. as it’s something i never got to before. but i think i’d only be unhappy if it wasn’t somewhere on/in me. talk about punishment for a cumslut. This is something my little one struggles with as well. She often seems to be desperately searching for the right words to say and sometimes even ends up having to push them out. And when they’re finally out, I often had to raise an eyebrow and say “Don’t tell me that was all you could come up with.” But she got better at it lately. I don’t think it’s so much about what you say or about what you want. Begging in BDSM is, I believe, mainly about showing submissive behavior. You humble yourself in front of your Dominant to either get something that directly benefits you (like an orgasm or less discomfort), or to proceed with the scene and avoid displeasing him. It is a reminder that you’re not the one in control. You can very well end up begging for something that you hate but that HE wants. I suggest you try to feel that submissive sweet-spot inside of you and then do whatever it takes to make the Dominant accept it as proper begging. You’re begging for his attention and care, and not for money near a tourist attraction. -- source link