September 18, 2013 at 9:23 PMAnonymous said…The only thing I have to do that requires any eff
September 18, 2013 at 9:23 PMAnonymous said…The only thing I have to do that requires any effort on my part is to attach this device to his genitals and see what develops from there. Let me explain what I mean.First of all, I secure Jim’s hands with handcuffs. Why you ask? There are several reasons. First and foremost, it places me in the position of authority. What can he possibly do without the use of his hands? He immediately becomes submissive to me, and I honestly feel like I’m in charge - hence the dominance and submission aspect. Second, I once made the mistake of NOT securing his hands, and his primal male instinct was to try to resist and attempt to fondle himself in the process. Finally, there’s a tremendous amount of symbolism in not allowing him to touch his own penis. Ever. It’s part of what makes this such an effective form of denial, and makes him focus all his attention on me since I’m the only one who can potentially unlock him and give him any sexual pleasure.Once he’s suitably restrained, I lubricate his scrotum and penis with baby oil to help reduce any friction between his skin and the CB-2000. Then I carefully attach the device - taking care not to pinch any of his more sensitive areas - and snap the lock closed. He’s now putty in my hands.We generally begin by setting a minimum amount of time he’s to remain locked. When we first started out, it was typically three or four days. As we’ve both grown more comfortable with this form of play, I’ve increased the time to three or four weeks. One he’s served his “sentence” (we call it that because he seems to get excited at the notion of an “imprisonment” of his penis), he knows he’s going to have a chance at an orgasm. He doesn’t get one every time which keeps him on his toes and also keeps him always wanting more.It’s important for you as the “keyholder” to understand is that while a device like the CB-2000 is generally comfortable, it really needs to be removed from time to time if for no other reason that to give it a good cleaning. It’s also going to make things easier on him to have it removed for a brief time so as not to cause any damage to the sensitive skin in the area where it’s attached. When we first started with a 3-4 day term, I’d secure his hands and take the device off for an hour or two almost every night. He didn’t get to touch himself, and there were certainly no orgasms for him during these times. Now that we go for as long as a month at a time, I generally remove the device once or twice a week. His hands are always secured behind his back, but he can watch TV or do whatever he wants (not that he can do much without his hands, but once again I digress).During the period of his sentence he knows the he must be a perfect husband in order to get his ultimate reward - an orgasm - at the end. While I assign him some chores along the way like taking the trash out or doing the dishes, I also expect some random acts of kindness on his part. These include little gentlemanly things like opening my car door, bringing me coffee, giving me massages (without me having to ask) and even bringing me flowers or greeting cards from time to time. I don’t really keep score, but I’m always taking mental notes of how often these things occur. If that’s not enough, it’s within my power as the keyholder to ask for an orgasm of my own as often as I want. Obviously since his penis is under lock and key he can’t pleasure me with intercourse, but it’s amazing how many other ways there are of accomplishing the task. And he’ll try any and all of them if he thinks it’ll help him get his own orgasm eventually. Train him to pleasure you off in whatever ways you most enjoy, whether it’s oral sex, fingering you, using a vibrator, or even a strap-on dildo. I’ve found that the longer he’s denied an orgasm, the more he goes out of his way to treat me like a princess. Can it get any better, girls? -- source link
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