maybemeansyes:First of all, sorry. I know everyone else is reblogging this because they
maybemeansyes: First of all, sorry. I know everyone else is reblogging this because they think it’s really hot, and honestly, just the knowledge that lots of other people think that this is a good thing should probably help me get over feeling this way, but: I hate rope because I’m worried about how it will make my body look. I hate it, even the idea of it. It’s out there, masquerading as a fun sex toy, just waiting to trick me and make me look like shit. Fuck rope. To me it’s beautiful, but it’s of course not mainly about the looks. It’s about the restraint and what it feels like and symbolizes. I’d see the worries about how you might look in it as a possible area of growth. Because when you’re properly tied up, you’ll have no chance to escape that worry anyway. And then, once you’ve spend some time struggling against the rope and the worries, you might even realize that they’re not important at all. And in more practical terms: I might care about a lot of things, but I’ll never care about the insecurities a sub might have with her body. While you’re bottoming, that’s one of the things you have no choice over anyway. -- source link